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So, I was in this commercial…

What do you get when you combine Loralee with:

One huge and awesome corporation

Eleventyhundered practice falls

Fifteen crew members

Fourteen hours of filming

Three dogs

Two pies

Two cameras

One gorgeous apron

One piece of eye-catching Lisa Leonard jewelry

One adorable pair of shiny Calvin Klein shoes

One kid

One pretend husband

And an actual ChemDry technician?

THIS:

While it’s not “Citizen Kane” or even a Geico commercial, I think it turned out to be pretty cute. As for when it will air, it’s a national commercial. It will be all over the internet and if a ChemDry franchise wants to buy local airtime for it, they will. You may see it, you may not.

I was a fun little lark to do.

And since I am now referred to as “The ChemDry Celebrity”?

My life is pretty much complete.

:)

P.S. I plan on getting an award for my deeply moving “finger tap of awesome” and my knowing smile and “I-have-an-adorable-and-perfect-family-head-nod”. (SERIOUS AND COMPELLING ACTING, Y’ALL. Snort.)

P.P.S. My husband is my real husband’s BFF. (I am in works for a reality show called, “Brother Husbands”. Heh.)

P.P.P.S. His name is Max. While my body killed the next day from falling repeatedly, Max DEFINITELY had the worst of the whole shoot. The dog trainer put chicken juice on his face to help the dog jump up on him.

P.P.P.P.S. The little girl is his daughter.

P.P.P.P.P.S. The dog is no biological relation to any of us.

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(Thank you for your emails of support for the grieving mother in our community. We have had roughly 200 letters and can always use more. I will continue to take “Letters of Love” until this Sunday.)

(My first post with the LG TextEd program is up!  Every comment gets a .50 donation to dosomething.org.  (From their Facebook page: “Do Something believes teenagers have the power to make a difference. We leverage communications technologies to enable teens to convert their ideas and energy into positive action. We inspire, empower and celebrate a generation of doers: teenagers who recognize the need to do something, believe in their ability to get it done, and then take action.” Rad, no? Hope you leave a comment or four. :) )

Letters of love.

(*Edited to include image and to add that I will be collecting letters until SUNDAY, OCT. 17th. Thank you.)

Dear everyone,

I rarely do this, but I am asking for your help.

Someone lost a baby in our Internet world.

Her name is Jill.

Her son’s name is Joshua–A sweet, adorable baby that had eyes that would break your heart and cheeks that you could probably never get tired of kissing on.

babyjoshua

(*Jill stated she does not mind Joshua’s image on positive posts and well…I needed to show you why this story just reached into my soul and has not let go. It’s beyond being a grieving mother myself…his little face is one of the sweetest and most heart wrenching things I’ve seen.)

Jill is having a seriously (and I  mean a very SERIOUSLY) hard time*.

Aside from her child passing away, she is being taxed beyond what ANY human should face during this time.

Many know their story, many do not.

The “story” and aftermath is not the point of this. I have no interest in fostering hate or calling for vengeance or having a place of debate.

I just want to help a fellow human who is in a huge, HUGE amount of pain right now.

I know many of you have given support, love and courage. I am not discounting those efforts at all. She just keeps getting things flung her way and well, I would like to combat that with as much love as the Internet can give.

I want her to know that people still care.

That she is loved.

That she has support around her right now.

Even if you don’t know her,surely it is not hard to imagine what the pain of losing a child would feel like. The hell it would bring to your door.

It seems like it’s futile to go against such grief and such a situation. I’m not trying to change anything, though OH, how I wish I could.  I know I can’t really do much here. But having had some of her pain with my own loss I feel like I need to do…something. And so, I can only draw on my own experiences. Some days all that saved me was reading the kind words people wrote in cards and letters to me about my Matthew.

I would like to give her more of those words to read and hopefully feel some kind of comfort when she finds herself in need of them. I do not want to make a spectacle, insert myself or make this about anything but her, her family and their sweet little one. I want her to have her privacy.

So, I am asking if you could help me send her some love?

A letter of love, to be precise.

A quick email of support.

To show that people care. That her baby is loved and not forgotten.

And hopefully it will help her heart even a tiny bit.

Join me?

Send all emails to loraleechoate (at) gmail (dot) com.

SUBJECT LINE: LETTERS OF LOVE

I will be forwarding them to her friend,Kristine, and a printed and bound copy will be delivered to Jill so she can read them when she needs them.

THANK YOU for your loving support.

xo,

Loralee

*Those of you who know? Know. Those who don’t? Please write anyway. Please.

P.S. No hate allowed. Period.
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Yup! We’ve decided to homeschool, y’all.

Thank you so much for all the links and input when I asked about homeschooling.

And…

(deep breath)

We’re going for it.

As soon as possible.

If it goes as scheduled, we will be homeschooling Christopher on Monday morning.

Seems very fast, right?

Yes and no.

We have been playing around with this as an option for years. I started being exposed to alternative forms of education when I took a leap and put my eldest into the valley’s first charter school in 1st grade. I found myself paying rapt attention when she decided to homeschool a few years ago and read her posts about it often. Since the middle school here is so huge, we have ALWAYS considered homeschool for these years (with a return in high school). And so, I have been turning it over and over like a rusty hamster wheel in the back of my head for a long, long time.  You have to understand how many people we know and that are family that have done this.

We have a lot of support.

My mother was a teacher for 35 years.

My mother-in-law has been a music and orchestra teacher forever.

My sister-in-law homeschools all her children and has for several years.

I could go on, but those are the main sources of support I will be drawing on.

We want to do K-12, but I am not sure there is an open district.

We want to work with a district if possible, but if it isn’t, we have all the curriculum available to us. (Which is an enormous blessing due to amazing inlaws).

It is not going to be a picnic and I will have to simply be better. Better at patience, better at time management, better at organization, better as a blogger, better at efficiency and better as a mother.

My kid is worth it, though.

I’d do anything for him.

Including this.

And looking at all my responsibilities and after many, many conversations and hours looking at it I feel a whole lot better about things and being able to make it work.

Some big helps: My mother-in-law retired from her position as orchestra teacher at my kid’s former charter school so she has offered to take Christopher 2 days a week to cover things like music and so that I can work and focus on Butterlump.  She is the most proficient woman in the world and knows as well as we do that Christophee needs help. It is a huge help in the equation.

We are signing him up for a swim team at our gym for his physical education (or something similar) and he is going to attend orchestra at the charter school next door in the afternoons.

Jonathan works from home so he will have set time with him.  HE IS IN CHARGE OF ALL SCIENCE AND MATH. (Hi, remember me? Girl with a 29 on the ACT and a 13 in math?) Everything else, I am good with handling.

My sister-in-law has offered to coordinate field trips and such with us. There is a strong homeschooling force in our valley and I plan on utilizing it.

My mom will help me as much as she can and I know she has forgotten more about organizing things and being efficient than I EVER possessed since both my parents are super tidy, hardworking and great at time management and things like remembering to get your oil checked before your car engine blows up on you, although sometimes I suspect they  just saw some poor, wayward, chaotic redheaded women in 1970′s pajama pants making theatrical and over-emotional gestures to a sign that said, “Hey, want a baby? I have one!” in a Safeway parking lot, took pity and brought me home with them because EFF ALL if I can figure out how I came from those two.*)

(It was a compliment to my parents, people.)

So, really, I have so much help and resources available to me.

Heck, I HAVE THE UNENDING KNOWLEDGE AND PATIENCE OF THE INTERNETS! (Ironically, Ree was sitting next to me when Jonathan texted me asking what I thought about homeschooling and she totally gave me a big thumbs up. Nice vote of confidence, that.)

So, really, what more do I need? ;)

I’m actually very excited about this.

NERVOUS AS ALL GET OUT, but excited.

Mainly, I want my child to feel better about himself, education and learning.

And I am very hopeful that we can make this happen for him.

Wish me luck.

*I probably shouldn’t teach him that run-on sentences are cool, right?