Twenty minutes before going on stage to sing the mezzo role in the matinée of “The Messiah” today, I found out that someone I have loved, adored, cherished since the day she was born was diagnosed with a very serious and scary illness.
(Obviously, the performance did not go very well, what with all the crying and snotting. Although in response to the emails, opening night kicked some serious tail. I’ll write about it later.)
She is enormously important to me and I am reeling in shock and sadness and the most fear I’ve felt since I lost my son.
She is a very private person and I want to respect that, so I will not write anymore.
This is all about her, not me.
I hesitate saying anything at all, I just wanted you to know because I don’t know how much I am going to be around the internet. There is so much that is unknown, I am not sure what and where I will be needed. Please understand if I’m not on your blogs and I’m begging all of you to keep our family in your thoughts.
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Breathe. We’ll be breathing with you. And sending healing.
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My heart goes out out to you. xo
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Oh Sweetie, I am so sorry for your friend. With recent health crisis in our family, I have been living every day with an attitude of gratitude for good health. In an instant, it can all be gone.
Prayers for your friend.
Loralee, I’m so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
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Oh, honey. I’m so sorry. You’re in my thoughts.
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Thinking of all of you….
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I am so sorry. Do what you need to do, be here where you need to be. I’ll be thinking of you all.
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I’m very sorry. Best of luck to you and your loved one in this difficult time.
Be strong, Loralee. For her sake–and your own.
You will be in my thoughts.
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I’m so sorry!
Be strong. Take care.
Blogging is low priority. Take care of your loved one first.
I’m sorry you have to deal with something scary, I hope that you can have some level of comfort through this.
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Love you.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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you and your loved ones are firmly held in my heart and in my thoughts.
love to you, friend.
Vx
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I’m sorry…I’ll be thinking of you.
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i’ll be thinking of you lots. xo
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Done. Thinking of you.
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I’m so sorry. I completely understand. Healing vibes to your friend!
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I am so sorry. You have gone through and are now living my worst nightmare(s). I hope wonderful things happen for your friend/relative.
I’m glad to hear opening night went well. I was wondering how it went.
I’m so sorry to hear of your loved one’s illness. You and she will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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I always fear something like this happening and although I’ve been spared so far, it will happen to us all eventually. Definitely in my prayers tonight.
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That must have been so horrible. I can’t imagine having to go onstage after that.
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DUDE. Hearts. Big pink puffy ones.
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I am facing a scary illness of my own these days. I am sorry that you and your friend are facing one as well. I can tell you from this side of the diagnosis, having the knowledge in and support of one’s friends is the most powerful energy to keep going. I am still in the anger stage right now, and moreover in the “what the hell is happening?” stage. But if it were not for my friends ~ both physically and through this divine sphere of collectiveness that the blogging world provides, I would be lost…truly, truly lost.
My best wishes and hope go to your friend. She is blessed to have you!
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I’m sorry sweetheart. I’ll be thinking of you.
Cxx
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Sending love, energy, and light your way and wrapping your loved one.
Actually, I’m sure you did really well. Sometimes in those moments of grief our true soul comes out in our voice.
xoxoxox
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You and your loved ones will be in my prayers.
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You’re ALWAYS in my thoughts and prayers, but more so lately. You know I’m here for WHATEVER you need.
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Will be thinking of you and your friend.
My heart is with you – I’m so sorry.
I’ll be thinking of you. Take care, Loralee.
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I’m so sorry. Wishing all the very best for your friend.
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I’m really sorry Loralee. Many lovey thoughts being sent your way.
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I am so sorry. I will keep kind thoughts for your friend. xoxo
I’m so sorry to hear that.
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